Stop settling for what is left over or what is given to you. There’s a deep down urge for you to do more, see more, accomplish more and love yourself more…
But it won’t happen until you “charge your worth” in all of your relationships. Be the mirror of how you want to be treated and seen.
If you are not happy with your body, your job, your marriage, your life or ___________, it’s YOUR fault!
If you’ve wanted to buy something, you’ve always found a way to save.
If you needed to lose 10 pounds before a vacation, you’ve always found a way to lose.
If you were too busy to go to the event you wanted to attend, you’ve always found the time.
Being SELFISH to accomplish the things you want in life is not being SELFISH at all. It’s showing others the standards and expectations you not only set for yourself, but for others to hold up to as well.
The only thing that is missing is the CONSISTENCY of continuing to save more, lose more and find more time everyday of your life.
Because the things you prioritize in life are the things you get. And the things you do consistently are what DEFINE YOUR CHARACTER.
So if people in your life aren’t respecting your effort towards your goals, maybe it’s your previous inconsistencies that is causing their feelings and reactions.
Again, that’s YOUR fault.
If you want to be seen and treated different, you need to act different. Your actions also needs to reflect your voice. This is called integrity.
Integrity to your promises, integrity to yourself and integrity to others. Lead by your actions!
Every broken promise chips away a little more and more at your own personal integrity…
…which leads to you settling for less than you deserve…
…which is then seen by everyone else in your life as the way they are allowed to treat you.
It’s time for change. It’s time to demand more. It’s time to do more.
You can do this!
Committed to your fitness success,
Derek Kuryliw, your fitness Yoda 🙂